Here’s to Your Health in 2008
A Votre Sante!!! Which means “to your health” in French. That is what I want you to think about for 2008 – your health! Without good health, where will that leave you? As I am sure you can tell by now, in reading my posts, health to me is all encompassing. It’s not just about exercising and eating healthy, it’s about having a healthy mind, body, AND soul. Whether you are planning on doing resolutions for the year or just a few things you want to achieve, I want you to put your health first. In general, women are caretakers by nature and we tend to take care of everyone else before we take care of ourselves. This is especially true if you are a wife and/or mother. So many of my girlfreinds have told me they can’t remember the last time they bought clothes for themselves, had a pedicure, went to the bathroom alone (you know, without little feet following them), had the house alone for at least 8 hours or just did something for themselves. So listen up girlfriends, for 2008 I want you to make your health a priority! Because really, you are no good to anyone in the long run if you are not taking care of YOU!
These are my ten To-Do’s for you and your health for 2008:
Love yourself first! It’s the best gift you can give yourself. Work on fully accepting your flaws and your quirks, and be truly okay with them. When you love and appreciate you, there is nothing you can’t do in life. Confidence and self-assurance are the sexiest aspects of a woman.
Don’t sweat the small stuff. Because really, it’s all small stuff. Don’t let little things stress you out. If you don’t have control over something then you have to let it go. When you begin to do this, you will be so much more at ease. It is hard to do at first, but trust me with practice it really keeps you sane and mentally well.
Be positive, get rid of the negativity. Maintain a positive attitude and outlook on life. When you think positively, you attract positivity. When you are negative or have negative thoughts, you attract negativity. Also, surround yourself with positive thinking people. Don’t allow the negativity of others to rub off on you. Sometimes we unknowingly take on the characteristics of others, whether good or bad when we are around them consistently.
Embrace a sense of spirituality. Whether you worship Allah, God or Buddah; create and maintain a spiritual space in your life. Your spirituality can get you through the most amazing and the most challenging times in your life.
Make time for YOU. Carve out time in your very busy life to do things for yourself and take care of you. Try to do to something for you at least twice a week this year. You will be a happier, relaxed and nicer person if you take this time for yourself.
Be active. Run, walk, ride a bike, do kickboxing or go for a hike. Do anything that gets your heart rate up and pumping. Exercise is the key to reducing your risk for heart disease and diabetes, along with eating healthy. Plus, as I always say, exercising makes you feel good and can help you sleep better as well.
Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. This year keep your mind focused on things you want for yourself and how you want to live your life. When you focus on the things you don’t want, you get exactly that — the opposite of what you want. Keep in mind your thoughts are powerful and what you put out is what you will get in return. Believe you can have anything you want!
Eliminate or reduce your stress level. Stress is the leading cause of several women’s health issues. Reduce your stress, improve your health. Meditating, eating well, exercising, and taking time for yourself are all things you can do to reduce your level of stress. Also, learn to embrace the power of no! If you are constantly overwhelmed and it is effecting your health, realize that you can’t do everything. (I know, easier said than done).
Get your health check-ups! Make your appointment today to have your annual check-ups — Pap-Smear, physical, dental, and vision. Don’t forget to also get your HIV/AIDS screening, mammogram, cholesterol test, and heart scans. Women, especially women of color are leading in heart disease, breast and cervical cancer, high cholesterol and diabetes, and HIV/AIDS.
Eat well and consciously. Know what you are putting in your body. Take the time to read the labels and ingredients of the foods you are eating. Try to incorporate more whole grains in your diet and less salt and sugar.
